When social doesn’t mean sociable

29th May 09

Social networking, social media, the social web-some of the most frequently used phrases of the moment but how often do we stop and think about what “social” really means?

One of the easiest (and laziest) answers seems to be that it’s about making friends-being sociable. But it’s interesting to  note that while “social” does derive from the Latin “socius” (meaning friend) it does so via “socialis” meaning allied. Somehow enabling allies and allegiances seems like a much bigger and more transformative idea than simply socialising.  

Some of the most interesting social sites at the moment actually seem to me to have very little to do with friending people, or poking people, or checking out their holiday pictures. The most interesting initiatives seem to be those that bring individuals together around a common purpose, enabling them to achieve things together previously only possible for major corporations. Ideas that allow individuals not simply to friend one another but to be useful to one another-that cut out the corporate world or conventional distribution mechanics and create a consumer to consumer value exchange.

As Jyri Engestrom puts it in his excellent post on “object-centred sociality”: “The fallacy is to think that social networks are just made up of people. They’re not; social networks consist of people who are connected by a shared object. That’s why many sociologists, especially activity theorists, actor-network theorists and post-ANT people prefer to talk about ’socio-material networks’, or just ‘activities’ or ‘practices’ (as I do) instead of social networks”

I recently attended the inaugural IPA “Game Changers” event where among other great speakers Giles Andrews from Zopa inspired the crowd by explaining the genuinely radical thinking behind “the social lending company”.  For those who aren’t familiar with the proposition, Zopa is a service that puts individual borrowers directly in touch with individual lenders. It not only offers a welcome stream of credit in these increasingly crunched times, it also offers a win-win by offering compelling rates for both parties.

This is a genuinely transformative piece of thinking that uses the fundamental characteristics of the social web-the ability to bring individuals together for their common good, the ability to start conversations-but has relatively limited interest in the sociable web. Concepts like Freecycle, couchsurfing or quirky work along similar lines: I don’t need to be intimate with other users to be of use to them, collaborate with them, fund them, enable them.

Perhaps the most interesting point this raises is that the future of the social web may be driven not so much by friendship but by a new kind of trust. Trust in individuals versus institutions. Trust in people I don’t know (that I’m not friends with) but who I instinctively prefer to the plc and who are brought to me by editor and enabler brands I believe in. As crumbling faith in institutions meets technologies that can genuinely empower both the individual and the crowd, the possibilities are endless (and a little scary). The future of the social web may in fact be less sociable, more (dare I say it) socialist….

So what does this mean for the corporate world? Well, the end probably isn’t nigh just yet. Deriving real utility from social media requires an investment from the individual-in terms of time and in terms of reciprocity. So it will probably remain for a while the preserve of the digitally savvy and time rich. But it may be time to start thinking now about which other services that could previously only be delivered by the might of the corporates that may be socialised next.   If lending can be socialised, what’s next? Venture capital? Real estate? What are we already doing on a micro-social scale that could go macro? What else can we congregate around to our mutual benefit? Would be fascinated to know your thoughts….

11 comments on “When social doesn’t mean sociable”

  1. Patricia, you bring up some really interesting issues. Just yesterday I published a post discussing the term “social,” arguing that *people* are social, the content is *shared*. Some great comments from the likes of Mike Arauz (who was kind enough to link in his Tumblr Fridays) and David Berkowitz among others. See it here: http://bit.ly/WEy9d

    Will add a link to this post on it now.

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  3. Hi Rick, really enjoyed your post on shared media and thank you for the link! I think you make an excellent point-that content isn’t social, people and the way people interact with one another is. In that way I think genuinely social applications and services are much more profoundly game-changing than, say “viral” content.

  4. i like this post… really enjoy the distinctions being drawn–between social, sharing, activities..

    but, at the risk of being slightly tangential, i also like the fact that this article ultimately suggests a return to a basic value like Trust. in tough times, i feel like these sentiments make huge come-backs. they cost nothing and underlie most everything. and when larger corporations have undermined the system their consumers depended on, it forces those consumers to re-examine the dynamic and pinpoint where it went wrong.

    normally, the weak link comes from taking something for granted. recently, that something is likely Trust. and so it’s getting brought back to the forefront, probably because–in a weird way–we had forgotten what it meant, and also because we’ve discovered (the hard way) that without it, few things work well.

    when everything goes south, it forces a return to fundamentals. and i guess what i’m saying is that i think that’s a good thing.

  5. Nice article. It compliment’s this month’s issue of Wired magazine’s SOCIALISM REDIFINED artical on the new digital socialism. You touched on very similar points like the idea that individuals are monitoring big companies. Nice read.

  6. I think this is why the word “community” is better to describe these interactive spaces and platforms. Self-evidently, I don’t have to know or be friends with everyone in my real world local community (thank f*ck) to benefit from it or contribute to it. I have a very dilute sense of belonging. The point even of my ‘belonging’ to it is certainly not friendship. But you can’t say “community media” because it sounds like a council service. It always used to be called community… before the marketing folks moved in… hmm

  7. I should add that I’m re-reading The Perfect Store at the moment. The story of eBay. eBay (and Amazon) totally understood the importance of ‘trust’ and the social, not sociable nature of the platforms they built back in 1994/5 (yes, that’s 14 years ago). People were buying off each other and because of one another’s recommendations. They called it community then.

  8. Great thoughts-I love the idea that new technologies are enabling some very old (almost lost) behaviours and ideas-like community, mutuality, the collective. A return to fundamentals as Adam says.

    Yesenia-thanks so much for highlighing the Wired article, I had missed it and it’s a great (and provocative!) read.
    http://tinyurl.com/p65bnz

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